Losing the Title, Finding Myself: Why Leaving Teaching Broke Me (and Freed Me)
After 18 years as a teacher, I made the decision to walk away from the classroom and into full-time motherhood. I felt relief… and something else I didn’t expect: total disorientation. No more lesson plans. No more classroom. No more title. In this honest post, I unpack what it really feels like to give up a career that once defined you, and why it’s okay to feel both grateful and a little bit lost.
The Swing in the Tree: Why I’m Not Ready to Take It Down (Even If I Should Be)
We’ve had that little pink swing hanging in our front yard since my daughter was 15 months old. Now she’s older, with a brand-new backyard swing set, but I still can’t bring myself to take the old one down. When my husband tried to replace it for our son, I completely shut down and not in a graceful way. This is the messy, emotional story of why letting go of a swing means letting go of a version of my daughter I miss more than I expected.
The Sparkle That Was Already There: What a Kids' Spa Day Taught Me About Raising a Daughter
A last-minute Mommy & Me spa day was supposed to be a fun distraction from a tough week. But when my 4-year-old looked at her painted nails and said, “Now I’m pretty,” it hit me harder than I expected. I wasn’t ready for that moment or the conversation that followed. Here’s what I told her, what I’m still learning, and why raising girls in today’s world feels heavier than ever.
The Summer That’s Slipping Away: When You’re Not Ready for the Next Chapter
She’s starting pre-K. I’m going back to work. And the summer we’ve spent side by side is coming to an end. I want to savor every moment, but the truth is, I’m struggling. If you’ve ever felt the ache of a season slipping through your fingers, this one’s for you.
The Goodbye I Wasn’t Ready For: What I Told My Toddler (When I Didn’t Have the Words)
This week, I said goodbye to my dad, maybe for the last time. It was emotional, complicated, and messy in ways I didn’t expect. And when my four-year-old saw me cry and asked why, I found myself trying to explain grief, love, and letting go in a way she could understand. This post is about those moments we can’t prepare for, when we’re both the parent and the child, and how we show up, even without the right words.
She Said, ‘I’ll Make You Happy, Mommy’ and My Heart Shattered
One quiet, exhausted morning, my daughter looked at me with wide, serious eyes and said,
“Mommy, I need to make you happy.”
And just like that, my heart broke.
Not because she was wrong but because she wasn’t.
She read my mood, absorbed it, and believed it was her job to fix it.
This post is about that gut-punch moment, the childhood patterns I never meant to pass on, and how one sweet children’s book helped us talk through something big.
Why We Skipped the Last Game: When Quitting T-Ball Was the Right Call for My Toddler (and Me)
When my toddler refused to finish her t-ball season, I felt torn. Was I letting her quit too easily or protecting her peace? Here's what happened the day we skipped the last game… and why it might’ve been the best decision we made.
"Maybe Later" Means Never: What My Toddler’s Volcano Cake Request Taught Me About Showing Up
When my toddler looked me in the eyes and said, “Maybe later means never, Mommy,” it hit me like a ton of bricks. I wasn’t just postponing a baking project, I was unintentionally missing a moment that mattered. Here's what I learned about toddler connection, presence over perfection, and why the cake wasn’t really about the cake at all.
Toddler Tantrum Over a Banana? What It Really Means (And What to Do Instead)
Toddler tantrum over a banana? Learn why it happens, how to respond calmly, and how to create connection in the chaos, no perfection required.
Toddler Tip Tuesday: What to Do to Survive the "It’s Mine!" Phase With Your Toddler
If your toddler is suddenly declaring ownership over everything from bananas to the moon, you’re not alone. This noisy, emotional phase is completely normal but that doesn’t make it easy. In this week’s tip, learn why the “It’s mine!” battles happen, how to respond without losing your cool, and 5 simple steps to teach your toddler about turn-taking, empathy, and boundaries (without daily meltdowns).
Toddler Tip Tuesday: How to Get Your Toddler to Actually Listen (Without Losing Your Voice)
If you feel like your toddler tunes you out during the day, you’re not alone and it’s not because they’re defiant. In this Toddler Tip Tuesday, learn why toddlers "ignore" you and how the simple 3-Second Connection Rule can transform mealtime, clean-up time, and more into calmer, more cooperative moments.
Toddler Tip Tuesday: Why Your Toddler Might Be Struggling at Meals (And It’s Not What You Think)
Sometimes, when toddlers reject a food they loved yesterday, it’s not about taste—it’s about sensory overload. In this Toddler Tip Tuesday, discover why your toddler might be struggling at mealtimes (and it’s not what you think) plus simple strategies to ease mealtime battles with less stress and more connection.
Toddler Tip Tuesday: Is It a Power Struggle or a Plea for Help? How to Tell the Difference at the Table
When your toddler crosses their arms and shouts "NO!" at dinner, it can feel like defiance. But sometimes, it’s actually a hidden cry for help. In this Toddler Tip Tuesday post, discover how to spot the difference between a power struggle and a plea and how shifting your response can bring more calm and connection to the table.
Toddler Tip Tuesday: How to Encourage Independent Play (Without Tears or Clinginess)
If your toddler is struggling to play alone, especially after a big change like a new sibling, you’re not alone. Learn the Play-Then-Peek Method to gently build their solo play skills while boosting their confidence. Perfect for toddlers learning independent play for the first time, re-learning it, or adjusting to family changes!
Toddler Tip Tuesday: What to Do When Your Toddler Takes Forever to Eat
You sit down for dinner, take a few bites, and look over at your toddler—who's playing with their food, staring into space, or taking microscopic bites. Sound familiar? Many parents struggle with toddlers who turn meals into marathons. The Meal Timer Method offers a simple solution to help your child eat efficiently without turning dinner into a power struggle.
Toddler Tip Tuesday: What to Do When Your Toddler Cries for Snacks Instead of Meals
Your toddler just begged for a snack—five minutes before dinner. Cue meltdown. If you're stuck in the endless snack spiral and mealtimes feel like a battle, you're not alone. This post breaks down why toddlers crave snacks 24/7 and how to gently reset their routine so they actually eat at meals (without the drama). Get ready to ditch the snack-time chaos and bring calm back to your table.
Toddler Tip Tuesday: Supporting Your Strong-Willed Toddler's Independence Without the Power Struggles
Your toddler’s fierce independence isn’t a problem—it’s a sign of healthy development. But when every morning turns into a battle over zippers, car seats, and socks? It’s enough to make any mom want to scream. Here are 5 sanity-saving strategies to support your toddler’s “I do it myself!” moments—without losing your cool.
How to Get Your Toddler to Try New Foods Without a Battle
Tired of begging your toddler to “just take one bite”? There’s a better way. The One Try Tribe method helps your toddler explore new foods—without pressure or meltdowns. Whether they sniff it, squish it, or lick it once, trying counts as a win. Learn how to turn food refusal into fun, bite-sized bravery!
Toddler Tip Tuesday: The One Simple Trick to Keep Your Toddler Seated at Mealtime
Last night, my toddler stayed seated for an entire meal—a miracle made possible by the "Mealtime Job Strategy." By giving your little wiggler an important table role, you transform dinner from a battle into a responsibility they take seriously. Here's exactly how it works...
When Your Toddler Treats Mealtime Like Playtime
Tired of watching your toddler turn mealtime into playtime? From food architecture to under-the-table escapes, toddlers have endless ways to avoid actually eating. Our latest blog post explains the developmental reasons behind food play and introduces the game-changing 'Sit & See' Method. This four-step approach helps transition kids from play mode to eat mode, uses effective redirection phrases, gives toddlers purposeful table roles, and sets realistic timeframes. Stop the mealtime madness and reclaim peaceful family dinners—without the power struggles!