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Losing the Title, Finding Myself: Why Leaving Teaching Broke Me (and Freed Me)

After 18 years as a teacher, I made the decision to walk away from the classroom and into full-time motherhood. I felt relief… and something else I didn’t expect: total disorientation. No more lesson plans. No more classroom. No more title. In this honest post, I unpack what it really feels like to give up a career that once defined you, and why it’s okay to feel both grateful and a little bit lost.


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The Swing in the Tree: Why I’m Not Ready to Take It Down (Even If I Should Be)

We’ve had that little pink swing hanging in our front yard since my daughter was 15 months old. Now she’s older, with a brand-new backyard swing set, but I still can’t bring myself to take the old one down. When my husband tried to replace it for our son, I completely shut down and not in a graceful way. This is the messy, emotional story of why letting go of a swing means letting go of a version of my daughter I miss more than I expected.


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The Sparkle That Was Already There: What a Kids' Spa Day Taught Me About Raising a Daughter

A last-minute Mommy & Me spa day was supposed to be a fun distraction from a tough week. But when my 4-year-old looked at her painted nails and said, “Now I’m pretty,” it hit me harder than I expected. I wasn’t ready for that moment or the conversation that followed. Here’s what I told her, what I’m still learning, and why raising girls in today’s world feels heavier than ever.

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The Goodbye I Wasn’t Ready For: What I Told My Toddler (When I Didn’t Have the Words)

This week, I said goodbye to my dad, maybe for the last time. It was emotional, complicated, and messy in ways I didn’t expect. And when my four-year-old saw me cry and asked why, I found myself trying to explain grief, love, and letting go in a way she could understand. This post is about those moments we can’t prepare for, when we’re both the parent and the child, and how we show up, even without the right words.

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She Said, ‘I’ll Make You Happy, Mommy’ and My Heart Shattered

One quiet, exhausted morning, my daughter looked at me with wide, serious eyes and said,
“Mommy, I need to make you happy.”
And just like that, my heart broke.
Not because she was wrong but because she wasn’t.
She read my mood, absorbed it, and believed it was her job to fix it.

This post is about that gut-punch moment, the childhood patterns I never meant to pass on, and how one sweet children’s book helped us talk through something big.

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Toddler Tip Tuesday: What to Do to Survive the "It’s Mine!" Phase With Your Toddler

If your toddler is suddenly declaring ownership over everything from bananas to the moon, you’re not alone. This noisy, emotional phase is completely normal but that doesn’t make it easy. In this week’s tip, learn why the “It’s mine!” battles happen, how to respond without losing your cool, and 5 simple steps to teach your toddler about turn-taking, empathy, and boundaries (without daily meltdowns).

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Toddler Tip Tuesday: What to Do When Your Toddler Takes Forever to Eat

You sit down for dinner, take a few bites, and look over at your toddler—who's playing with their food, staring into space, or taking microscopic bites. Sound familiar? Many parents struggle with toddlers who turn meals into marathons. The Meal Timer Method offers a simple solution to help your child eat efficiently without turning dinner into a power struggle.


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Toddler Tip Tuesday: What to Do When Your Toddler Cries for Snacks Instead of Meals

Your toddler just begged for a snack—five minutes before dinner. Cue meltdown. If you're stuck in the endless snack spiral and mealtimes feel like a battle, you're not alone. This post breaks down why toddlers crave snacks 24/7 and how to gently reset their routine so they actually eat at meals (without the drama). Get ready to ditch the snack-time chaos and bring calm back to your table.

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How to Get Your Toddler to Try New Foods Without a Battle

Tired of begging your toddler to “just take one bite”? There’s a better way. The One Try Tribe method helps your toddler explore new foods—without pressure or meltdowns. Whether they sniff it, squish it, or lick it once, trying counts as a win. Learn how to turn food refusal into fun, bite-sized bravery!

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When Your Toddler Treats Mealtime Like Playtime

Tired of watching your toddler turn mealtime into playtime? From food architecture to under-the-table escapes, toddlers have endless ways to avoid actually eating. Our latest blog post explains the developmental reasons behind food play and introduces the game-changing 'Sit & See' Method. This four-step approach helps transition kids from play mode to eat mode, uses effective redirection phrases, gives toddlers purposeful table roles, and sets realistic timeframes. Stop the mealtime madness and reclaim peaceful family dinners—without the power struggles!


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